It’s Thursday 10 am. You launch the Zoom call, and 20 stakeholders pop up in Gallery View.
This meeting is important, but you know that every person here is juggling many tasks and last-minute requests.
You try and raise the energy by amping up your own enthusiasm.
But you get little feedback or suggestions, except from the one person that goes off on a 20-minute tangent.
You had hoped for deep discussions, but the same old points get rehashed. Maybe they’re bored, you think. So you speed through the rest of the agenda. People wave kindly at the end, but it’s unclear what, if anything, will be done after this call.
Leading meetings in real-life circumstances can be difficult and messy.
Meetings bring together a mix of challenges: tight deadlines, competing priorities, some underlying team dynamics.
All of these these elements can pop up in some form or another during a meeting, and you, as the facilitator, need to navigate them to get to real results by the end.
Leading meetings in real-life circumstances can be difficult and messy.
As our work becomes more collaborative, expertise on how we work (process) becomes as important as what we work on (content). Facilitating group decision-making processes is a key skill for managers, team leads, campaign leads, project managers, and directors.
So what does it take to facilitate effectively?
Effective facilitators master these four elements
1. They Establish a Clear Purpose
- Why are we really here? What’s my role? What will exist after this meeting which currently doesn’t exist? They get the whole group aligned on the meeting’s purpose, objectives, and desired outcomes.
2. They Build a Structured Process
- Facilitators ALWAYS think in terms of process rather than agenda. What should happen before, during, and, after the meeting, so that we reach our desired outcomes?
- Before the meeting, we’re setting the right expectations, during the meeting, we keep the group on track and balance participation, and afterwards shape for accountability and follow-through.
3. They Lead with Presence
Your energy, tone, and non-verbal cues shape the room. A skilled facilitator stays calm, confident, and flexible, even when discussions get heated or when things don’t go as planned. Presence isn’t just about speaking—it’s about listening deeply, creating space for others, and knowing when to step in or step back.
4. They Understand People and Power Dynamics
They don’t just focus on the loudest voices; they create space for contributions across the spectrum, ensuring that both formal authority (e.g., seniority, decision-making power) and informal influence (e.g., expertise, social capital) are acknowledged and balanced.
Effective facilitators learned by joining spaces where they could practice (and safely fail)
There’s only so much one can learn from books. The real learning takes practice in learning-by-doing spaces. A learning-by-doing space is an environment where you can take risks, stretch you skills, and find your facilitation style. It’s a place to test out a session with supportive peers.
“Did the format allow for enough thinking time? Was my presentation clear?”
“How did my new brainstorming approach land?”
“How did I navigate that conversation, and what would you do in my case?”
And these sessions are not just beneficial for the ones leading them. Participants learn lots as well:
“Wow, I did not know about this format?”
“Would this approach suit my own team at work?”
At the end of a session, the facilitator knows what works and what doesn’t, and is ready to lead the session with confidence and ease in the real world.
Our course is designed to be YOUR Learning-By-Doing space
Detailed overview of the 6 weeks
When you sign up, you’ll …
- Kick-off with your facilitation coach
During your one-on-one, you’ll bring a past or future meeting you’d want to give an overhaul. You’ll explain the context, your role, the participants, and what you hope to achieve. The professional facilitator will ask a bunch of questions and then will suggest an approach for your session that incorporate the 4 elements of effective facilitation. - Browse through our Facilitation Resource Hub
Read about theoretical frameworks and prompts that can help you build your session. - Design and prepare your meeting the instructions, the activity, and you ping the other participants with the title and maybe a prep question.
- Run your own online meeting (20 min) + debrief (20 min) You’ll run a 20 min session. You’ll experience what worked and what didn’t. And your supportive peers will give you tips on how to make it even better.
In addition, you’ll:
- Experienced 16 wildly different online formats as a participant. Your peers will bring challenges that may feel familiar to you and you get to learn from their approach.
- Run one mini-format with a set of instructions to give you that extra practice.
This course is made for you if ...
This is the course for you if:
- You regularly need to lead meetings, either internally or externally, as a team lead, project coordinator, program officer, or manager.
- Until now you’ve successfully relied on your inituition alone, but now you crave novelty an inspiration. This course will expose you to lots of new approaches in a short amount of time coupled with the facilitator’s designing and planning process.
- You like highly participatory courses.
- You’re curious. You don’t need to have a meeting challenge in mind before signing up. With your facilitator coach, you’ll talk about your work and together you’ll find a meeting challenge to work around.
This is not the course for you if:
- You never lead meetings and frankly, you hope you never need to.
- You are very advanced in your facilitation journey – meaning you confidently tackle 3 out of 4 aspects – and you prefer doing a deep dive into one niche aspect.
- Experiential learning is not your thing – you prefer a book or podcast.
- You cannot commit to attend the 4 sessions.
What one session will look like
Each session follows a structured format
- Opening Activity | Mini-format facilitated by Peer A 🕛 15 min
- Let’s play out your meeting | Facilitated by Peer B 🕛 20 min
- Debrief your meeting | all 🕛 20 min
- Break 🕛 15 min
- Let’s play out your meeting | Facilitated by Peer C 🕛 20 min
- Facilitation Theory 🕛 45 min
- Closing Activity + Share learnings | Mini-format facilitated by Peer D 🕛 25 min
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Asking better questions
There?s hardly a better way to spend your time than to craft and refine the best possible questions. Questions directly condition what will follow, and great facilitators know to ask great questions. Here are a few things you can try.
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1914 translation by H. Rackham
“But I must explain to you how all this mistaken idea of denouncing pleasure and praising pain was born and I will give you a complete account of the system, and expound the actual teachings of the great explorer of the truth, the master-builder of human happiness. No one rejects, dislikes, or avoids pleasure itself, because it is pleasure, but because those who do not know how to pursue pleasure rationally encounter consequences that are extremely painful. Nor again is there anyone who loves or pursues or desires to obtain pain of itself, because it is pain, but because occasionally circumstances occur in which toil and pain can procure him some great pleasure. To take a trivial example, which of us ever undertakes laborious physical exercise, except to obtain some advantage from it? But who has any right to find fault with a man who chooses to enjoy a pleasure that has no annoying consequences, or one who avoids a pain that produces no resultant pleasure?”
1. They Define a Clear Purpose
Why are we really here? What’s my role? What will exist after this meeting which currently doesn’t exist?
They get the whole group aligned on the meeting’s purpose, objectives, and desired outcomes.
Drawbacks:
- May be more costly and less environment-friendly than online
- May consume more of your participants? time, especially if traveling
- Usually requires more organising
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Section 1.10.32 of “de Finibus Bonorum et Malorum”, written by Cicero in 45 BC
“Sed ut perspiciatis unde omnis iste natus error sit voluptatem accusantium doloremque laudantium, totam rem aperiam, eaque ipsa quae ab illo inventore veritatis et quasi architecto beatae vitae dicta sunt explicabo. Nemo enim ipsam voluptatem quia voluptas sit aspernatur aut odit aut fugit, sed quia consequuntur magni dolores eos qui ratione voluptatem sequi nesciunt. Neque porro quisquam est, qui dolorem ipsum quia dolor sit amet, consectetur, adipisci velit, sed quia non numquam eius modi tempora incidunt ut labore et dolore magnam aliquam quaerat voluptatem. Ut enim ad minima veniam, quis nostrum exercitationem ullam corporis suscipit laboriosam, nisi ut aliquid ex ea commodi consequatur? Quis autem vel eum iure reprehenderit qui in ea voluptate velit esse quam nihil molestiae consequatur, vel illum qui dolorem eum fugiat quo voluptas nulla pariatur?”
1914 translation by H. Rackham
“But I must explain to you how all this mistaken idea of denouncing pleasure and praising pain was born and I will give you a complete account of the system, and expound the actual teachings of the great explorer of the truth, the master-builder of human happiness. No one rejects, dislikes, or avoids pleasure itself, because it is pleasure, but because those who do not know how to pursue pleasure rationally encounter consequences that are extremely painful. Nor again is there anyone who loves or pursues or desires to obtain pain of itself, because it is pain, but because occasionally circumstances occur in which toil and pain can procure him some great pleasure. To take a trivial example, which of us ever undertakes laborious physical exercise, except to obtain some advantage from it? But who has any right to find fault with a man who chooses to enjoy a pleasure that has no annoying consequences, or one who avoids a pain that produces no resultant pleasure?”
1. They Define a Clear Purpose
Why are we really here? What’s my role? What will exist after this meeting which currently doesn’t exist?
They get the whole group aligned on the meeting’s purpose, objectives, and desired outcomes.
Drawbacks:
- May be more costly and less environment-friendly than online
- May consume more of your participants? time, especially if traveling
- Usually requires more organising
Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet
Consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat.